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Learn & Play

After the match, the fun begins.

Three companions for the time after the match: the Academy to learn and practise, the Connection Lab to play together and the cheat sheet as quick help in the chat. All optional – none of it reads along.

Good conversations can be practised.

The FOUND LOVE Academy is training, not a blog: short situations from real dating, a decision, honest feedback and a better alternative.

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A situation from the Academy

You: How was your weekend? I finally made it to the Grundlsee – freezing, but beautiful.

Alex: haha

Alex: yeah

Alex: cool

A good conversation suddenly turns into nothing but “haha”, “yeah” and “cool”. What do you do?

  1. Send three more questions
  2. Share something concrete about yourself and ask an open questionBetter choice
  3. Feel hurt and stop replying

A short, concrete story about yourself invites a reply without pressure. If nothing comes back, that is an answer too – and you may end the conversation kindly.

“Between Us” on every plan

Find each other. Discover each other.

The Connection Lab is the playful side of FOUND LOVE: over 100 game cards for two, 25 personal questions to tap and two compasses that spark real conversations. Optional, without judgement – “Between Us” on every plan, all games from Premium.

Between UsTry it

You’ve had a really bad day. What would you wish for from the other person?

You both answer independently. Cards are only revealed once you have both answered.

Feelings compass

How would you like to feel in a relationship? Choose up to three words.

“I wish for a relationship in which I can feel safe and understood.”

Optional on your profile – no analysis, no type.

See me for real

Personal cards to flip

You turn over answers to personal questions one by one – they show more than a photo alone. If they like, people can show their photo only after discovery: that is an optional setting, by default the photo is visible right away.

  • Games for two only open once interest is mutual – blocking and reporting remain possible at any time.
  • Points only for guessing right – no types, no percentages. Games never change your matching.
  • Private messages are never psychologically analysed.
Questions about the Connection Lab
Cheat sheet

A match is only the beginning.

The hardest moments often come after the match: the first message, a conversation that stalls, a misunderstanding, a boundary, the first date. That’s what the cheat sheet is for – right in the chat, whenever you switch it on.

There when you need it
One click next to the message box. It never opens by itself and is gone again just as quickly.
More than first messages
Over 45 situations, each with several nudges – from short replies to misunderstandings and boundaries to ending things respectfully.
Your words, your decision
It doesn’t read along, uses no AI and never sends anything. You get nudges and examples – you do the writing.

If you want to go deeper, almost every situation links to a matching Academy lesson.

Try the cheat sheet

Example conversation

Alex: Hey! I went to the Grundlsee at the weekend.

You: Lovely! Did you go swimming?

Alex: yeah

Demo – nothing is sent here.

Where are you stuck?

The replies are very short

Nudges

Share a bit more of yourself and ask something that’s easy to answer.

How it could sound

„Let me tell you about my day: I finally tried the café around the corner. What was the best part of yours?“

Why it can help

Sharing something yourself makes replying easier. Slowing down signals ease rather than expectation. And a light question is often exactly what someone with little energy can answer right now.

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